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Becoming the Healer – Book Reviews
“Becoming the Healer “
I wanted to take a moment to express how much I enjoyed reading “Becoming the Healer.” Your narrative is both powerful and deeply moving. The way you weave personal experiences with insights on healing truly resonates. I found your exploration of vulnerability and strength to be incredibly enlightening. It’s clear you’ve poured your heart into this work, and it shines through every page. Your ability to address such profound themes while remaining approachable is a rare gift. I could relate to many of the emotions you described, and your words provided comfort and reflection.
JOE C.
“This book should be read by all TBI survivors and carers.”
Not only is it packed full of helpful practical and spiritual information, and is incredibly inspirational, but it is written beautifully. As a long-time survivor myself I thought I knew just about everything to do with brain injury healing, but Deborah L. Schlag has taught me a few things. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. The author has a way of pulling you into what’s happening, and that just made me want to keep reading. I fully recommend Becoming the Healer: The Miracle of Brain Injury.
UK Reader
“This is an amazing book,”
Written from the perspective of the person who has lived it. This is a book that should be read by everyone who has ever suffered a brain injury because it offers so much hope for recovery. It should also be required reading for anyone who is involved in the treatment and recovery of a person with a brain injury, in particular those physicians, nurses, therapists, family members, and friends for whom understanding the process and the possibilities for recovery is essential to helping rather than discouraging. This book is not about a state of disease or trauma as much as about the very real, very human struggle of one woman–and her amazing family–who simply would not give up.
Bessiemay
“This book is amazing, as is the author’s recovery.”
Having been in the medical field, it was an eye opener and very interesting. She has not only recovered but began a new career special to her recovery modes. A true God given gift!
NY Reader
“Thank you for sharing your story with us.”
Coma/Traumatic Brain Injury is not something you would wish on anyone. Deborah Schlag has written a wonderful account of her experience of recovering from TBI. It would not be too much to require doctors to read her book as part of their education. I am glad she so graciously included her caregivers’ letters in her book as a brief way for people around her to express themselves. Deborah’s new spiritual mission of being a conduit for healing is a very fortunate outcome for everyone who has the opportunity to be with her. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Mickey
“It was a good book”
To see what a person that brain has injury goes thru….and what FINAL process she went thru to overcome her brain injury.
Kay Edwards
“Deborah is making her life’s work visible in the world,”
Bringing awareness and light for healing and happiness today and for the generations to come.
Barbara Ocskai
Thank you so much for healing prayers!
PS. Your book has made me cry several times. Your book touches my heart and soul! Thank you for writing your book and sharing your journey of becoming a healer!
Joy B.
“What struck me the most about Deborah’s book, Becoming the Healer,”
Is both, the level of faith she has in God, when faced with seemingly insurmountable odds against recovery, and the level of commitment she also had in never giving up or giving in to the years of physical, emotional and mental challenges she was faced with during the entire healing process! It is a love story really on so many levels, spiritually, from a family perspective as a doting mother who then became the child herself, while her husband and young children, reversed the roll of caregiver in nurturing their loved one back to health over the course of many years—and lastly, the amazing long term support she received from neighbors, friends and holistic health care community during her ordeal. To say this story is inspiring, is an understatement. The dedication she and her family showed during this lengthy period of healing, was transformational for all of them and in the process, she created a road map of tools and therapies to assist anyone with TBI (traumatic brain injury) to assist them through their own healing, as well as additional challenges with insurance and health care systems, while coming to the realization that her son also was suffering from TBI and including him in her journey back to wellness! Being a friend and not knowing about the accident, some passages were especially difficult to read, and I was overcome at times with a sense of sorrow, deep compassion and profound empathy for what she went through. She serves as a shining example of the power of the human spirit and that, with an abiding faith in God and angels…. miracles and “all things” are indeed possible!
Shawne
Brilliant!!!
I have just finished Deborah’s book which all trainee neurology doctors should read. Like Deborah I too had brain injury, although mild many symptoms she experienced I too experienced, but the doctors could not offer any help or explanation for. If you or a family member is finding recovery from head trauma difficult then read Deborah’s book, it might just help you and your family understand what the patient is going through. Thank you, Deborah!
REDCOAT
“This is an amazing book,”
Written from the perspective of the person who has lived it. This is a book that should be read by everyone who has ever suffered a brain injury because it offers so much hope for recovery. It should also be required reading for anyone who is involved in the treatment and recovery of a person with a brain injury, in particular those physicians, nurses, therapists, family members, and friends for whom understanding the process and the possibilities for recovery is essential to helping rather than discouraging. This book is not about a state of disease or trauma as much as about the very real, very human struggle of one woman–and her amazing family–who simply would not give up.
Bess S.
In “Becoming a Healer,”
Author Deborah Schlag shares her observations, struggles, and successes with overcoming Mild Traumatic Brain Injury (MTBT). Hers is an inspiring story of coming to terms with confusion, loss of memory and need to leave behind an old identity and discover a new way of living. Becoming a Healer is a hopeful story that will lead you step by step through the unfolding of the aftermath of her injury and the challenge of handling the simplest of everyday tasks necessary for running a household.
During her process of growth through reliance on various methods of healing including her faith, compassion, and biofeedback. As Schlag rebuilds her life she finds the importance of living in the present moment. She learns many unexpected lessons along the way that help her get back to living a full, rich life. I invite to share in her journey in reading the brief story she offers at MyMindfulWayofLife.com and to join her on her continued path of learning more about MTBT via her website AwakeningsCenterNC.com
Dr. Urszula Klich, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
My Mindful Way of Life, Llc. Atlanta, GA
“This book should be read by all TBI survivors and carers.”
Not only is it packed full of helpful practical and spiritual information, and is incredibly inspirational, but it is written beautifully. As a long-time survivor myself I thought I knew just about everything to do with brain injury healing, but Deborah L. Schlag has taught me a few things. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. The author has a way of pulling you into what’s happening, and that just made me want to keep reading. I fully recommend Becoming the Healer: The Miracle of Brain Injury.
PPL
“I am afraid of everything and, that too, makes life very interesting.”
I received my second closed head injury in 2010. Since then, I have carried a very small purse (primarily for my driver’s license) because the weight of a heavy purse will cause my neck and shoulders to spasm with shrieking pain.
However, over the past few days, I have been puzzled as to why my purse seems so heavy whenever I leave the house. I knew that nothing was in it (or so I thought) and so it never really occurred to me to look inside.
As I grabbed my purse this morning, I finally decided to look inside just out of curiosity …. what the heck could it be that is making this purse so much heavier than normal??? I was totally shocked to find Deborah Schlag’s book “Becoming the Healer — the Miracle of Brain Injury” inside. How humbled I was to take note of the fact that I was clinging to it like life support and did not even consciously do so.
No I don’t remember putting it in my purse, but yes it makes total sense to me now. Like a small child taking her fuzzy bunny to school as a source of comfort in a big, scary world.
I read hundreds of books each year and this book has single-handedly changed my life in so many ways it would simply be way too lengthy to write it all here.
Deborah has been very thorough in her documenting just exactly what goes on in the life of someone with a head injury. Prior to reading her book, I thought I was a pain in the ass. I thought I was being an irrational idiot for being unable to tolerate the sound of the refrigerator for example (hallelujah on page 55 … I now have peeps who understand this obsession!!! I am not alone!!!) I have been known to shut off the fridge and totally forget about it until it was too late, and we have had to throw out a few hundred dollars’ worth of food several times over the past few years …. that type of behavior does not make one really popular with the person who is paying for those groceries let me tell you! However, there is a huge difference between recognizing that I did it out of an attempt at self-preservation vs. doing it because I am a flaky, bad wife that can’t seem to get her life together.
Exhaustion is huge for me. I have to pace myself with the tiniest of tasks … make the bed or wash the dishes? Walk the dog around the block or make dinner? Change the shower curtain liner or sweep up the dog hair? Never mind huge tasks like washing the windows … I have not done that in years as just thinking about it exhausts me. I am constantly behind … and there is no catching up in sight. We rarely have company because of all this.
And I have all too often hated myself because I used to think I was the very laziest wife on the planet yet today, after reading Deborah’s incredible book, I recognize that I have a head injury with physical and emotional side effects.
I am afraid of everything and, that too, makes life very interesting.
And I am intolerant of so many things (from food to fragrances to florescent lights to people) that I can hardly keep track of it all. No WIFI in this house and no traveling either as hotels are blanketed with EMF fields. Everything seems to give me a headache some days. Yet again, I never questioned all this prior to Deborah’s book and mostly just tried to minimize life as much as possible in hopes of not triggering another migraine. But living so small does not suit me!
And let’s not even talk about sleep patterns (or the total lack of them).
All of these and much more are covered in Deborah’s book.
With all my heart, I miss the old me. The one that knew nothing about these disabilities. The one who was totally healthy and totally happy. The one that was a financial asset vs. a debilitating liability. Life with a closed head injury is very costly, mostly due to chronic unemployment. I never did apply for disability assistance as I kept thinking that I would be better “soon”. People with closed head injuries don’t make good decisions sometimes and that would be one of my very biggest regrets.
I definitely plan on reading Deborah’s book again … something I can’t ever remember doing before (unless it was a children’s story to my daughter.)
Did Deborah’s book heal my head injury? Not yet. But it has radically healed my heart and my own perception of myself and for that I am forever grateful.
I have over 800 books in my house and out of all of them, “Becoming the Healer” is the only one that I absolutely had to read. All the others were merely keeping me company until the Calvary arrived.
And the Calvary has arrived!
If you know anyone with a head injury, PLEASE read this book and please share it with others. Most of my friends have no clue how much agony and loneliness I have gone through personally and professionally due to my head injuries because I was not a vegetable or drooling all over myself. But I underlined over 1/3 of this book … it started out as Deborah’s story but virtually everything I underlined is my own story as well.
It takes a giant of a person to go through such trials and then be able to so professionally and so sincerely articulate such a profound document and I am 100% grateful that it found its way to me! It makes my eyes water and gives me goosebumps of gratitude actually.
Social worker
Healing reviews
Earth Angel!!!
I met Deborah through an online spiritual group and made an instant connection with her!! 6-8 months later, I was told suddenly, that I needed open heart surgery and as the date approached a few months later, Deborah reached out to me and lovingly offered prayers and healing throughout every facet of the surgery and healing journey, which I humbly and gratefully accepted. During the second week after the operation, having to get out of bed in a specific fashion so as to protect the incision, I subsequently strained my right side, and dreaded sciatica reared its ugly head. Having suffered with this for decades, in the midst of a challenging healing process already, I was extremely anxious, knowing it meant a lengthy time travelling to acupuncture (6 wks. normally) and expense, while being greatly debilitated and in pain, when I was already struggling! Historically, I knew this was not going to be a quick fix and by the end of the day, I could feel the familiar tightening on my right side, with tenderness easily on the verge of muscle spasms and I was overwhelmed with concern and reached out to Deborah. She assured me immediately, that she was “on it” and by the following morning, I awoke to find I had literally no symptoms of my sciatica at all!! In the 30 odd years I have suffered with it, I have NEVER experienced that MIRACULOUS a recovery and it has left no doubt in my mind, that she is a gifted healer! I feel blessed to have her in my life as a dear friend and as a healer—in short, my own personal ‘’ earth angel”!!!
Shawne
Deborah is a caring healer with an amazing gift and very sweet, loving spirit.
I had jaw surgery and asked her to send healing that evening. She picked up on an injury I’d had when I was a teenager that kept my arm from straightening out—-broken elbow.
Today after her healing session, my arm straightened out fully for the first time since I was 16! And my jaw feels amazing one day after surgery!
I have felt an amazing peace when she and I have a session as well as experiencing a lovely relaxing and loving energy.
I appreciate her and her gifts so much and give humble thanks for her help.
Shelly Silvas Morris
Resilient Soul
“Immensely inspiring & humbling”
The Resilient Soul is an incredible collection of very personal stories about how adversity & abject despair can turn the worst situation into something positive & powerfully inspirational to others. Instead of giving in, these people, from all walks of life, ages, social status, education levels all had one thing in common. They made the decision to rise above their individual circumstance & in doing so, found an inner strength, resolve & resilience deep within their soul. Instead of laying down in front of the hurdle life had thrown in front of them, they gathered all that came from they had & managed to get over that seemingly impossibly high hurdle. Immensely inspiring & humbling, The Resilient Soul should be on everyones1book collection.
Fran Leavitt, RN, retired
“I can recommend this book for anyone who has hit a wall.
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At some point in our life, we all face
problems, confusion, difficulties, disappointment, loss and will go through the dark night of the soul. Karen Leavitt provides a beacon of light in her book: “The Resilient Soul.” Through her own courageous, yet vulnerable journey out of darkness and pain she sheds inspirational light on the path for all of us when we must traverse the challenges that life will inevitably throw us. In addition, there is a wonderful collection of amazing stories of resilience shared by her radio show guests from her talk show radio days.
It is with a gold star that I can recommend this book for anyone who has hit a wall.
Debra Crosby
“I highly recommend this soul stirring book!”
I thoroughly enjoyed the inspirational stories shared in this book. Especially the author’s own story—she shares how she became part of the resilient soul club after a car accident that changed her life forever. I highly recommend this soul stirring book!
Lis Courtney
“I would recommend this book.”
I read this book over the weekend and thoroughly enjoyed it. It was eye-opening to see the strength and resilience of what some of these individuals overcame. I would recommend this book.
Colleen KM
God’s Love Song to Man
“God’s Love Song to Man”
if it is your intention to walk in greater Light, to embody greater Love, to awaken even more to who you truly are, this book will show you the Way. This is not a book to read cover-to-cover in one sitting, rushing through it as you might rush to get to some destination before it’s too late. Instead, this is a book much like all books of Truth. It is a book which unfolds and reveals itself through much prayer, contemplation and meditation, drawing you closer to God, the Source of Love more and more each day as, little by little, you integrate the messages into your everyday life. I’ve experienced no other book like it.
Kate D.